Paternalism is bad but why do so many doctors expect me to mother my patients?

Dr Rachel Glasson.

Sometimes we GPs can get quite attached to our patients.

It’s probably no accident that many of us, having pursued a career based on helping others, tend to want to save people, sometimes from themselves.

We are ideally placed to know a lot about our patients, especially those for whom we care over many years, but at the same time there is obviously a limit to what we can ultimately do for them.

I had a patient many years ago who was desperately ill with meningococcal sepsis.